If you have school-age children, at some point you have probably considered taking them out of school to visit Disney World. It can be a tough decision, and in my experience at least, the right answer was different at different stages of our daughter’s life.
Chris had a great post last week that kind of inspired this discussion today. In it, she asked if folks preferred taking more frequent small trips, or fewer longer trips. I commented that, for a number of years now, we seem to be taking smaller trips as opposed to longer ones, primarily because of the challenges we face in working around school schedules.
The “take them out of school” discussion is one that I personally struggled with. The first time we dealt with this dilemma was when our daughter was in middle school, and we made the decision to plan a 7 day Land/Sea vacation with Disney Cruise Line in October. Her school system had 2 days off during this one week, so I figured that she was only missing 3 days of school. We notified all her teachers in advance, she got her work from most of them before she left, and so she was able to do a good bit of it on the way down to Florida and back. No real problems.
I can’t say as much for the next time this came up, because by then she was a sophomore in high school…which is an entirely different ball game. I was going to be at Disney for a business conference, so we decided that we would all go. It was only for 3 days, in early December. She was an A student, so we figured that it would work out fine, and that she would have no problems.
We were wrong. In high school, the work load is a great deal more, and things move rapidly. Despite her best efforts to keep up with her homework while away, it was hard: who really wants to do calculus problems instead of seeing Wishes? And coming just a few weeks before Christmas break, every teacher was cramming to get things accomplished prior to the break. She was loaded with work before she left, and had even more when we returned.
She was able to eventually catch up, and her grades did not ultimately suffer…..but it was hard. We decided not to do that again. Our trips, from that point on, were during school breaks, and if that meant smaller 3-4 day trips, well so-be-it.
If you have younger children though, you may have more flexibility in scheduling your vacation. Many folks do take their children out of school to go to Disney World on a regular basis. If you are considering doing this, here are a few tips that I would offer that may help:
- Be sure to discuss your trip with your child’s teacher well in advance. Some teachers can give your child their homework prior to your vacation, so that he/she can complete it before you leave….or at least have it to work on during the trip there and back. It will really help when they return, if they are relatively caught up with their classmates.
- Depending on the age/grade of your child, see if there are “Disney-related” assignments that your child could do instead of regular work. Many teachers are very happy to encourage creative reporting on some of the educational aspects of Disney World: and there are a lot of great ways to do this! In fact, I think nearly everything at Disney World is educational in some aspect, so see if your child can take advantage of this by keeping a journal, doing a report or preparing a slideshow.
- I do think it is important to consider your child, and any challenges they face in school before you decide to do this. A vacation in the middle of the school year can be a real disruption to the routine of many children: how will your child handle this? Does he/she struggle for average grades? Some children can easily miss a few days of school without missing a beat, while others may be challenged for weeks afterwards trying to catch up. Again, there is no *one* answer here, it really depends on your own family situation.
So what about you? Have you taken your children out of school for a Disney vacation? What tips do you have to make it successful? And….would you do it again?
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Coming from a teacher, I have a piece of advice. In many school systems you can get the absences for a vacation approved (often by the principal) in advance, whereas if you write an absence note for a trip afterwards it will be considered unexcused. Make sure you check your school system's policy for approving absences for trips. Some teachers are sticklers about not allowing make up work for unexcused absences and you don't want a week's worth of zeros to put a damper on your vacation.
We took our kids out of school in the UK when they were younger. For us it's never been an issue. Consider the education they get of learning from new experiences and make sure that it's not all play. School work is very important but we've never had a problem with our kids “catching up”. We just make it clear they will have to work hard when they get back. It's never been a problem as they seem fresh and ready after a Disney World break.
All in all it has worked out well for us… we moved to Orlando 13 years ago as a result!
I think it totally depends on the kid, how old they are, how they're doing. I really am not looking forward to havig to make these decisions–right now we have year-round school (on 9, off 3), but that will change when they're older.
Lisa your point about sports teams is an excellent one and another aspect of things that you need to “plan around” with older kids. Even outside of the school year, many teams have intensive practice schedules over breaks and even the summer….and yes, missing practice is absolutely frowned upon! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Nancy, great points and I completely agree that it depends on your children and also their stage in school. My stepson did not have any trouble with school so prior to high school we did take him out of school for Disney World vacations. He easily made up the work and we had some invaluable quality time as a family. However, he attended a challenging high school and even the best students would struggle with missing a week of school. Add this to the fact that he played on a very competitive sports team and missing practice was heavily frowned upon. So, at that stage of his school career, we stopped planning family vacations during the school year.